Learning how to face our fears is one way we embrace love. Our fear may not go away, but it will not stand in the way.
— bell hooks
Tag: Reading
Most of us think that we are arguing about being right versus being wrong. The truth is, we are almost always arguing about being seen, heard, and understood by our loved ones.
— Thais Gibson
February Read: ‘Killing the Black Body’
Happy Black History Month! One of my goals for the month is to finish reading “Killing the Black Body” by Dorothy Roberts. I started reading it in February or March 2020 but needed to stop because the world was doing too damn much. I mean, it was just one tragedy after the next. Eventually, I was like, Hmm… Lemme take a rain check on dis.
So, here I am trying again. I’m really excited to get into this book because, while I don’t recall where I left off, I remember being enthralled with it. (Is “enthralled” too positive of a word? It feels a little weird, given the book’s subject matter.) I remember getting the impression that the author was building up and providing evidence to support whatever claim they make in the book. The stories — the few that I was able to read — that Roberts provide are so uncomfortable to read but necessary.
One story that I think about every-now-and-then is the story of several newborn Black babies drowning in a ditch.
One story that I think about every-now-and-then is the story of several newborn Black babies drowning in a ditch. They drowned in a ditch because the racists that their enslaved mother’s were forced to work for wouldn’t give their mama’s breaks to tend to them. As a result, the mom’s left their babies in ditches close to the fields that they worked in to be able to feed them throughout the day. I don’t know why but I remember feeling surprised when I first read that snippet of history. I wasn’t surprised that it happened; I was surprised to read that it actually happened. Does that make sense?
Anyways, I’ll be back with an update of my thoughts on this book when I finish it. What are you reading this month?